Who you are is important! More than that, it’s who God made you to be. You have to be willing to let Him and people see you for who you are. This took me a long time but it becomes easier when you remove some of those barriers and start to put your walls down and let Him in!
You were made with gifts and talents that ae specific to you! How you share them with the world is up to you too!
Fathering is a verb, they are action steps. This is an active participation from the one who fathers you. I didn’t have this, so for me, it was HUGE! Our fathers (and mothers) do so much for us, spoken and unspoken. This is the gif God gave me inside of intimacy with Him.
We have to be able to build trust, to not hide ourselves, to get to know he Lord and who He is.
The growth and healing that can happen when we surrender and partner with the Lord.