My story

I grew in what I thought was a normal, middle class family. Although, we were a little broken in ways that I would only later come to realize. I had learned codependent love. To care for others over myself. I learned I had to be something or someone for them to love me.

In this, I learned a part of codependency called enmeshment. Where you lose all sense of self including self autonomy and self authority and seek to please the other person at all costs.

As a child I could tell our family was different and I wanted to be like other families. When I visited my friends homes I could tell that the atmosphere was different. It was calm, peaceful. I felt safe there. I could be myself there, wild and free. I could feel the safety and love. I wondered why and what they had that was different.

So I set out to figure it all out, and that I did. I spent years learning about self governing and self autonomy. I learned how to relate to myself. How to be myself. Through all the misguided information and all the pleasing. I learned to find myself again and again. I learned how to teach and parent this way too. I learned to take back my authority over my feelings and to live self empowered, self governing. From a place of choice, decision and freedom. I had never had this before. I felt like a baby learning to walk. But I built the muscle and kept working at it.

My life began to change. I could see the result of me finding my voice. Of listening to myself. I built trust with myself that I'd know what to do and when to do it. Not that everything went perfect, but I was trying. For the first time I.was.trying. Decisions from me, for MY life and for MY family. I knew there had to be something different, something more so I went for it and I'm still going for it!

I want to see women's lives and family changed like mine did! I want to bring this freedom. This self governing and choice. So you decide. Are you ready to join the movement of self guided, loving, whole hearted people?